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Question: How to make a guy last longer in bed?

(Posted by: Shannon on 2008-08-04 12:16:41)

Ok so I have been married to my husband for 7 years. How do I help him last longer in bed? I swear he will only last like 2 min. And that is usual, sometimes only like a min. This has been the same way since we have been together. Its not like there are long period of time when we don't have sex, sometimes we have it 3- 4 wks and its the same way. What can we do. He is in his late 20s How can I do nothing? How can I put this... this amount of time is not long enough for me. sorry it is 3- 4 days not wks

Posted by: Mark on 2008-08-04, 12:46:35

If he knows your not bein satisfied,then there are options.First,tell him this.If he's in his 20's he should be pretty sexual yet,bring him back again,and make him do you right.After he finishes,if nothin else,be sexy,make it a game and tell him you want more,you don't have to crush him,but you do need to be satified as well.If he ever gets the reward of gettin you off as well,he should know what the rewards are and have somethin to challenge him further.Some of the best sex between me and my wife is hot and fast,we've been together for twenty years now,but also the rewards of slow graduall building up of each other causes huge explosions.After 7 years you have to have a general idea what he likes otherwise the problem probably wouldnt be there anyway.If you don't tell him what you like you are the 1 who truely suffers.I had that same problem early on in our relationship.Even to this day,my wife can rob me in seconds if she chooses to.I'm totally infatuated with her.Luckily,my wife took control and showed me the rewards of putting her first on my agenda.Now,all I want and need is to satisfy her,and that takes care of me 10 fold over.I hope that's the prob here with you,but if not,the next step could be a medical 1.There are muscles a man needs to train to last as well as have control of.But that usually can be fixed with a willing man.If he needs help it truely sounds to me that he has a willing partner,otherwise you would of moved on long ago.You'll find a way I'm sure,otherwise you would not be askin here.But try this first,it worked for us.After he finishes,put on your seductive look and attitude and take control and bring him back for round 2 and see if he completes his mission,if so,he'll know next time the true reward.

Posted by: whisper on 2008-08-04, 12:27:03

U need to go to a adult book store they sell oils there that u put on u or your hubby,n they work had the same trouble with my hubby,,and u can even eat these oils,my oldest daughter told me about them,they go there a lot,,good luck,,,peace

Posted by: dotab on 2008-08-04, 12:27:11

Take it easy with him. Create a atmosphere where you both feel quite and ease. Do everything slowly and he might last longer. If it doesn't work then try some Indian ayurveda treatment. Try and find out somewhere near your city a this. All the best further.

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Posted by: manolito on 2008-08-04, 12:31:42

Three approaches: 1. Seek professional help and go to a sex-counselor (should be in the yellow pages). Probably the best approach but he may not be open to it. 2. Get your hubby to use a cream or ointment that makes him less sensitive (ask a medical person to suggest something although these creams/ ointments are also available in sex-shops or by mail-order.Or else, let him use a condom which also makes him less sensitive. 3. Go for a lot of foreplay so by the time he enters you, you'll be more than ready and his 2 minutes will be enough to give you what you want. Good luck

Posted by: hugmepls on 2008-08-04, 12:37:00

If he is aware you feel this way, then his anxiety and stress levels on 'performing' in bed will be sky high. Poor bloke! How about intense foreplay to get you both more aroused and satisfied. Perhaps you should have sex more often than every 3-4 weeks. How about every 3-4 days? Try to have sex again after the first session. Wait about 10 or 15 minutes then try to arouse him again. You could even satisfy him (and yourself) with some sex toys. Don't put all the pressure on him to do everything - you try and take control - some men do like that you know!

Posted by: Katy S on 2008-08-04, 14:07:36

My husband lasts for as long as he wants. he learnt it by reading when he was 13 in a magazine that if you masturbate and takes his time (and doesnt just do it fast for quick orgasm) he builds up his stamina. he has always done this and it definitely works